YOU ARE NOT RUNNING OUT OF TIME
About This Book
YOU ARE NOT RUNNING OUT OF TIME is a bold, thought-provoking book for women who feel pressured by age, society, comparison, and the fear of remaining single. It challenges the beliefs that push women to lower their standards, ignore red flags, tolerate unhealthy situations, or commit to someone simply because they fear they may not find another partner.
Through honest insights and relatable relationship scenarios, Amb. Prince Patrick Osadebey explores the hidden effects of desperation, societal expectations, biological clock anxiety, and rushed decisions. The book also includes practical reflection questions and a powerful Reality Audit to help readers recognise unhealthy patterns, confront their fears, and make more thoughtful relationship choices.
This is not a book that promises to find you a partner. It challenges you to stop making fear-driven decisions and start choosing with clarity, self-awareness, and confidence.
If you have ever wondered whether you are taking too long to find love, or felt pressured to settle before it is too late, this book is a timely reminder that the quality of your decision matters more than the speed at which you make it.
Before you rush into a relationship because you fear time is running out, read this book. The decision you make today could shape the life you live tomorrow.
This book challenges the notion that time is running out for finding love, revealing how fear can drive rushed decisions. Through relatable scenarios and practical reflection questions, it encourages readers to confront their fears and make more thoughtful relationship choices.
Who this book is for
- Women feeling pressured by age
- Those facing societal expectations
- Readers seeking self-awareness
- Individuals wanting to improve relationship choices
What you'll learn
- Recognize the influence of fear on decisions
- Identify unhealthy relationship patterns
- Understand societal pressures on relationships
- Reflect on personal standards and values
- Make choices with clarity and confidence
Read a free sample 3 pages from the book
Y O U A R E N O T R U N N I N G O U T O F T I M E
You Are Running on Fear How urgency, pressure, and comparison push you into choices you will later regret A M B . P R I N C E P A T R I C K O S A D E B E Y Relationship Coach and Counsellor
For every woman who has ever let fear make decisions that her clarity never would. This book is for you.
C O N T E N T S
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I N T R O D U C T I O N A Letter Before We Begin
This book is not a list of steps. It is not a formula for finding a husband or a checklist for getting relationships right. It is a mirror. And mirrors are uncomfortable for a reason. What you are about to read is not new information. Deep down, you already know most of what is written in these pages. You have felt it at 2 a.m. when something did not sit right. You have sensed it in a relationship that looked right on paper but felt wrong inside. You have noticed it when you said yes to something your gut was already saying no to. The problem has never been a lack of information. It has been what you have been willing to do with it. Fear is a quiet force. It does not show up wearing its own name. It shows up dressed as compromise, patience, open- mindedness, or maturity. It sounds reasonable. It sounds like wisdom. But beneath the surface, it is driving decisions that your clarity never would. This book exists to interrupt that pattern. Not to tell you what to do with your life. Not to set a timeline for you. Not to make you feel ashamed of where you have been. But to bring the real conversation forward: plainly, without
A M B . P R I N C E P A T R I C K O S A D E B E Y 2 sugarcoating, and with enough respect for your intelligence to give you the truth instead of comfort. Five chapters. Five areas where fear quietly takes over. And at the end, an audit that will ask you to stop reading and start facing yourself. If you go through this book honestly, something will shift. Maybe not immediately, maybe not dramatically. But something will move. Read it. All of it. With directness and respect, Amb. Prince Patrick Osadebey
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C H A P T E R 1 The Panic Nobody Wants to Admit
There is a kind of fear that does not shout. It does not show up as tears or breakdowns. It sits quietly in your decisions, disguises itself as “being realistic,” and slowly starts to control how you think, who you entertain, and what you tolerate. Most women will never call it panic. They will call it “being intentional,” “being open-minded,” or “not wanting to waste time.” But if we are being honest, many of those decisions are not coming from clarity. They are coming from fear. You say you are just being practical now, but something has changed. The things you…
End of sample. The full book is 42 pages on Afri KDP.
Questions about this book
What if I feel like I'm running out of time to find love?
The book emphasizes that it's not about time but rather the fear that drives decisions. It encourages readers to focus on making thoughtful choices rather than rushing due to societal pressures.
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